Walk through each question and take notes in your phone or on a notepad. Keep track of your score for each self-assessment number you choose and add up your total at the end.
HOW TO SCORE YOURSELF
The total score per category is 12 points. Inside of each category are 3 options to assess yourself with, so choose the number that best fits your current reality:
1. Asleep (1, 2, 3)
2. Aware (4, 5, 6)
3. Engaged (7, 8, 9)
4. Inspired (10, 11, 12)
After you’ve read the description, choose the number that best fits your current life reality - be honest with yourself.
FAITH: THE UNSEEN
The act of believing, trusting & connecting with God.
You're completely unaware of anything spiritual beyond what you can see and prove in the natural realm. You have little to no belief in a God and seldom, if ever, think about life before you were born or after you'll die. In your mind, spirituality is for crazy people and religion is simply a crutch for the weak.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Spiritual Connection Is Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Your Spiritual Connection Is Confusing To You
You believe some greater unseen power exists and somehow must guide the universe, but you're confused about how it really works or how to access any sort of connection. You've gone back and forth over the years and are open to learning new things, but it's defeating and exhausting trying to figure it out. You feel stuck spiritually and want to change but really have no idea where to begin.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Spiritual Connection Is A Support To You
You know God's there and you call out to him when life hits the fan but don't usually depend on him as a source of inspiration, guidance or strength unless you run into challenges in life. You've attended church or you've got some guys in your corner, but business, sports and entertainment still tend to take priority at times. Prayer is a regular habit and faith is important to you, but it's easy to drift.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Spiritual Connection is a Source Of Power To You
You know you were created for connection with God for his purposes on earth, and you use that knowledge as power in every area of your life. You sense God guiding you daily, having peace and certainty in all your decisions. Your connection with God isn't just a crutch when you're in a ditch, but it's something that leads, strengthens and inspires you daily.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The act of knowing who you are & why you're here.
You don’t see the point in knowing who you are or why you're here. You've got no real awareness with your feelings, habits, belief systems or addictions. You've never really considered that there could be more to life, more purpose than what you've been told. You just believe the stories culture has told you about yourself and your role in society and you're good with it.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Identity Is Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Your Identity Is Confusing To You
You've come to understand that knowing your identity has some value, but you've had a hard time connecting the dots and you're still largely reliant on others opinions of you to shape the way you view yourself. You're open to learning, but the messages are so conflicting it's hard to understand.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Identity Is A Support You
You've become clear about how your belief systems and behaviors have shown up in the past. You've pursued personal development, trying to figure out why you do what you do. You've found a certain level of success making changes in your life and you've found a certain level of power in studying yourself. You've realized that accessing your true identity is the doorway to understanding your purpose in life. You haven't mastered this skill but you're aware and making steps to discover the truth.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Identity is a Source Of Power To You
You know with 100% certainty that nothing will ever change in your life until you change what you think about yourself, which will change how you act, creating the results you want. You know WHO you are, WHY you're here. Your self-awareness is fully alive and and you spend time protecting the truth you've learned about yourself so the seductive pull of culture doesn't suck you back into the trap of deception and distraction. Your daily disciplines have allowed you to transform your life. You've become an inspiration to others because of your level authentic transparency.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The relationship with your wife (or girlfriend).
You ask yourself why you ever got married or ever began this relationship and pain have become the only consistent feeling as a result. Your intimacy is non-existent and you've settled on the fact it will never get better. You have no healthy communication skills whatsoever and most conversations turn into an argument. You're ready to throw in the towel and start over.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Marriage Is Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Your Marriage is Confusing To You
You know why you want to be married but no matter how hard you try you can’t seem to get on the same page as a couple, and it's left you both feeling frustrated. You've seen progress with intimacy, but you still hope for more. You're starting to talk about things that matter, but your communication is still leaving the other feeling hurt. You feel hopeful at times, but you lack the mindset and direction to make lasting change.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Marriage Is A Support To You
Your marriage has made significant progress and there have been great moments of intimacy and heartfelt communication. The relationship is no longer a burden, and you're both working toward a lasting future together. You have both gained renewed levels of trust with each other and you're both committed to changing your paradigms so you can keep the positive changes coming.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Marriage is a Source Of Power To You
Together, you and your wife are a power house. You both have a strong spiritual connection and certainty in your identity, and you're literally unstoppable when you step into the marketplace or any other venture you tackle because you both know you've got a relentless ally in your corner. You are both purposeful about protecting you belief and your actions so you can be a positive influence in life.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The relationship with your kids (or family/friends).
You avoid your children by staying distracted or sedated with work, sports, media, hobbies. You hand off all of your responsibility for raising your kids to their school, church or even there friends' parents. You can't remember the last time you had a meaningful conversation with them.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Children Are Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Your Children Are Confusing To You
You attempt engaging with your children but you can't seem to connect or even understand what drives them. It seems that no matter how hard you try it just creates a bigger wedge, and the resentment seems to be rising with you and them. You've had moments of success, but they are usually short lived and you realize you lack the skills to be an emotionally connected father.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Children Are A Support To You
You love your children and they feel the same about you, and it shows. You have regular conversations that are engaging, loving and inspiring. They know you're on their side and you feel like the skills you're acquiring are working. You are feeling encouraged that they're on the right path and you're leading them wisely and lovingly.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Children Are A Source Of Power To You
You see your children as agents of change for the future and you're dedicating your life to equipping them with the necessary skills to not just survive, but the thrive in everything they do. You intentionally invest time, money and energy into your children and they have an awareness that you are their biggest advocate. You honor your children and they know your love runs deeply for them.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The act of being physically active for overall health.
You’re unaware & lazy when it comes to exercise. You don’t know how your body works and simply ignore any sense of reality with your body when it comes fitness. You can’t remember the last time you even attempted to break a sweat. You think little about your body and how it effects your life thus fitness is not even part of your reality. You’re out of shape and don’t care.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Conditioning Is Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Conditioning Is Confusing To You
You’re aware & value the benefits of fitness. You're active occasionally, but not often enough to create good patterns and transform your body. You know your fitness affects your life and you want improvement. You think about making changes often, but you usually don't follow through, or when you do get active regularly you just don't see the results you want and leave discouraged.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Conditioning Is A Support To You
You’re knowledgable about your body & stay active. You're consistent with exercise and stay active 3-5 times a week, maintaining a healthy physique. You're very aware of how your body affects your life and have done a good job doing just enough to maintain your health over the years. You don't push yourself too hard, but you remain aware and engaged, making solid choices daily.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Conditioning Is A Source Of Power To You
You train with passion and you set regular targets that challenge you to achieve physical milestones. You don't work out, you train with purpose in mind. You consider yourself an athlete and your body empowers you to perform at a high level in other areas of your life. You're committed to a lifetime of training for maximum performance and don't see age or circumstances as an obstacle.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The food and drink you put in your body.
You understand little to nothing about nutrition and have no conscious thoughts about food on a daily basis. You eat whatever you want and often settle for processed fast food options. You fill your body with low quality foods and have low energy levels but have never really connected the two realities. You eat just to survive and are completely unaware about the consequences.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Diet Is Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Your Diet Is Confusing To You
You know a little about healthy food options but you still have limited understanding as to the actual effects that food is having on your overall well being and energy levels. You occasionally eat healthy, but you're pretty unaware what is even means to eat healthy. You eat to survive and have a little knowledge about nutrition, but it doesn't move you to action and you doubt it matters at times.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Diet Is A Support To You
You've got generally good eating habits but wouldn't consider yourself to be an expert. You're more aware of what you eat than most people around you but you still cut corners at times. You enjoy eating but you're beginning to see food as more fuel than fun. You're very aware of the connection between your energy and what you consume. You maintain general health but don't view your diet as a complete source of power just yet.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Diet Is A Source Of Power
You see food as fuel for power and you reject the culture trap when it comes to your diet. Green Smoothies, whole grain plant based food with clean non GMO meat, along with portion control are top of mind. You're not perfect but you make conscious choices every time you put something in your body understanding the long-term and short-term affects of choosing poorly.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The art of creating value in the marketplace (as an entrepreneur or intreprenuer).
You've a business or job that's failing and you're a slave to it. You operate from scarcity and most days are filled with thoughts of giving up. You are confused about starting or expanding your business and struggle to understand all the necessary aspects to creating a thriving and successful business. You're struggling to survive and you're lost in debt, chaos and confusion.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Business Is Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) Your Business Is Confusing To You
You've got a business or a job that pays the bills, but you're a slave to the phone, the office or your clients. You have a basic understanding of business fundamentals, which has afforded you some wins, but you're not producing what you want to. This is taking its toll on you in every area of your life. You're constantly putting out fires working on what's urgent instead of what's important.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Business Is A Support To You
You feel like you're moving in a good direction in business. You've got a good amount of knowledge and skills in all areas of business. You're beginning to feel a sense of ability to continue thriving regardless what the market conditions are. You're very profitable and have been able to save a significant amount of cash for emergencies and you're no longer stressed looking at the bank accounts.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Business Is A Source Of Power
You've got a business and you know it's a leader in the industry. The doubts about whether your idea will work or not are gone and you're no longer worried about making money. You feel like you've mastered the basics and you're now building a team and leading them with vision and purpose. You live in a world of abundance and have left scarcity in the past.
WHAT'S YOUR SCORE? _ / 12
The art of understanding & investing resources.
You're a Consumer Only. You don't have a financial plan and don't even have the current capacity to know how to make one or why it's important. You're in survival mode and the thought of investment is a fantasy at best.
Asleep (1, 2, 3) Your Investments Are Not Important To You
Aware (4, 5, 6) You Investments Are Confusing To You
You're a Consumer Investor. You've had a level of success financially but your primary focus is still on consumption, not multiplying what you've earned and allowing money to really begin working for you. You make some investments here and there, but there's no real dedicated focus on its value. Abundance peaks it's head around the corner sometimes but scarcity still often drives you.
Engaged (7, 8, 9) Your Investments Are A Support To You
You're an Investor Consumer. You've moved beyond the limiting belief systems around money that have held you back and you operate with an abundant mindset. You've got a basic plan and you think about investment first before you think about consuming, which has given you financial strength. You've tasted victory and can't imagine going back to the days of survival you had for so many years.
Inspired (10, 11, 12) Your Investments Are A Source Of Power To You
You're a Kingdom Investor. You've moved into a place where your investment plan is so sound that you no longer work on anything that doesn't make a difference in the world. Your focus now is not s=just maintaining the stable investment plan you've implemented, but investing purposefully in ventures that empower people and ultimately advance the Kingdom of God.